Courtship is dead. Chivalry is long gone because women killed it. The concept of dating has evaporated into the wind. Being faithful and actually committed to someone is a thing of the past. You may think that this is a rather negative, pessimistic way of looking at the world of dating and sex, but I assure you that it’s only realistic.
We live in a world where people are too stupid to actually handle any of the responsibility that comes their way. A generation plagued by being indecisiveness in every regard of life, as well as a generation that has taken the feelings and emotions that have kept humanity together and has spat in its face.
There are a few key points that take into account how the concept of dating has turned more meaningless then your first kiss you had when you were 10 years old. The first being that we are all too damaged from past relationships- mainly resulting from having our hearts broken after we convince ourselves of the delusion that what we felt at the age of 16 was everlasting love.
This goes for both men and women. The issue is that it lives on with women longer than it does with men. By the time a girl is at the ripe age of 23 she is nothing more than broken- both inside and out. As the good old saying goes, women lose their mind at exactly the same moment they lose their virginity.
This leads into the vicious cycle of dating. It is basically a never-ending cycle that spreads further and further. It either starts from a girl that is a bitch because she has been fucked over, or a guy that is an asshole because he has been fucked over.
When they meet someone they believe to be a good match and start to build a relationship with them, the spite and anger that has seeped into their core gets released in intense bursts, infecting the relationship and the new lover. The relationship ends, but the damage is done. That person, that was nice and naïve when you first met, you have now turned into a fellow miserable being. Herpes is not the only thing that is this contagious.
I was a part of this love cycle on both ends, more than once. I was the nice guy that got slam-dunked on by a girl that I thought I was going to stay with forever. Which then turned me into an asshole, and, it is safe to say, I have lost count since then on how many girls’ lives I have ruined. From simply shattering their hearts to using them as nothing more or nothing less then a booty call, I made sure they shared in the pain I felt.
This isn’t just me- this is all guys. But there was a rebirth a little while later when I thought that maybe I shouldn’t let one bitch hold me back from giving another girl a chance. So I became the nice guy again, found a nice girl who seemed like she was a right fit, only to have the rug swept from right under my feet again.
And this cycle happens all over the world. What she did was give a new rebirth to the asshole that was still buried somewhere inside.
Sure it seemed like a good idea to become vulnerable once again- let my guard down- and give it another shot because us men do enjoy having the nice company of a lady, someone that we can click with and not just fuck like rabbits. But after this experience all she did was add fuel to the vicious cycle- and so it goes around and around, and around.
This has lead me to believe that you really can’t be nice to women anymore or do anything nice for them. I was raised by women and I’m a big believer that women should indeed be treated correctly and with respect- as long as they are respectful of themselves.
But I don’t think women of our generation can handle being treated nicely. Having a gentlemen by their side who will extend their hand out for them when they need help and to treat them like a lady should be treated, simply no longer interests women.
Because they have been treated like such shit by all the other men in their life and because they are so emotional that they have a hard time getting over the past, when they do finally meet a good guy with a good heart that treats them well, they find it awkward and suspect.
Recently there was a study done showing that women find things that are polite as creepy, such as holding the door for them. Being a gentleman is seen as something that is wrong and weird. Why? Because there are so many scumbags out there that you stick out like a sore thumb. Being nice is going against the grain.
The funny part about it is that women will blame men for being scumbags when they are the ones that ignite our anger by fucking us over for being too nice in the first place. Women currently have no idea what they want and because they are damaged goods they are lost now more than ever.
This leaves them at the age of 32 having their mid-life crisis, already divorced and saying there are no good guys out there- yeah bitch, that’s because you decided to run away from all of them in your life.
The conclusion to my rant is this: you really can’t give women an inch because they will take a mile. Treating them nicely and being a gentleman, which normally you would think women would want, is actually something they don’t know how to handle.
It’s like giving a soccer ball to a kid that lives in poverty. Instead of building a soccer field and charging people to play with the ball, he just uses it for himself because he doesn’t know what to do with it. That, ladies and gentlemen, is the woman of the 21st century.
Nice guys do finish last and being an asshole is the only thing that keeps women around. The sad part is that most of us guys do have a nice side to us that we don’t mind showing to a lady every once in a while, enjoying their company because it truly is enjoyable. But if it just to receive “it’s not you, it’s me” text messages, then fuck it.
I have given up hope of even trying to date any girl at this point. Women of this generation have no clue how to handle a gentleman so this just leaves me, and most of the men out there, forced to have casual sex all of our lives, pulling the Clooney.
It’s all about the sluts, escorts, and the girls that have daddy issues. Like the great Jay-Z once said: You know I, thug ‘em, fuck ‘em, love ‘em, leave ‘em, cause I don’t fucking need ‘em. Living and dying by that statement is the only way to live these days- as I’m sure almost every guy in my position can agree.
Preston Waters | Elite.