What Men Want: 6 Qualities Men Look For In The Ideal Woman
I've had many types of relationships with women of many ages and from all around the world.
Because of this, I would like to think that by now, I know what to look for in a woman. When looking for a lady, there are many factors to consider:
1. Every guy has his certain type.
Obviously, physical appearance factors in, and when it comes to dressing up and going out, he might like to show off how beautiful you are. However, there is a fine line between “trashy” and “attractive.”
Something around 40 percent revealed skin is the perfect amount.
2. Every guy seeks some who's humble and has a chill personality.
So, ladies, if you think you are the sh*t, you won't get far with a man who's also successful and attractive. He knows he can find a lady who's humble, hot and offers some substance. A bad personality is fatal.
3. Men want a girl with whom they can converse.
Intelligence is important. Being an airhead is unattractive and often a deal breaker. I hear a lot of ladies talk about communication with men; however, it's a two-way street and applies to both parties. Opposites very well may attract, but sometimes in relationships, they don't work in effect.
4. Men like attention, too.
Act like you to want to be with him; surprise him. Men love surprises, but it seems that these days, men usually only give them to women. By surprises, I mean anything from buying him something he wants to initiating sex.
When he least expects it, grab his junk or start performing oral — very few things are sexier than when your girlfriend is feeling frisky.
Also, NEVER tell a man that a guy from your past was hotter or that you had a better connection with your ex. Always play to his ego; it's a win-win.
5. Men love when women get a little jealous.
…But acting psychotic is a different story; just a little jealousy to show you care is a turn-on. Also, defend him — always! Not only is it attractive, it's also crucial for maintaining a close bond.
It is imperative that you make him feel like he can tell you anything and like he can be secure with you — and I mean in the full gamut of potential aspects.
When you have issues or problems, do not tell your friends or family because it'll tarnish their opinions of him, which ultimately, won't be ideal for you. It makes your man out to be the bad guy and if he finds out that you aired his dirty laundry, he'll be uncomfortable around these people later. Women may love to vent, but keep it under control.
6. Men want 100 percent of a woman.
Be open. If you give him 100 percent of yourself, he's more likely to reciprocate; the better a girl treats me, the better I treat her.
Remember, ladies, having a guy bang you is not an accomplishment; having him want to be with you on the other hand, is.
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