Why Every Guy Should Sleep With At Least One “Not So Hot” Woman In His Life
I would like to thank all of the readers for the overwhelming response I got from my article last week. Now, let's get down to chapter two…
I went through a period of my life – at a university – when I would basically stick it to anything that had a pulse. I don't know what it was, but I just had “the urge” to do so. Yes, I've banged a lot of hot women, but I've also had my fair share of …let's call them “not so hot” women. I'm sure many of you can relate to that, even if you wouldn't publicly admit it.
In time, I developed my own “standards,” which I later began to live by. These days, I know exactly what I like, what I want, what I can and will sleep with, what I would date and what I would possibly even marry.
I've only managed to reach this “educated” point in preferences because I've been there. This article is here to show you why you should also go there, at least once in your life.
So, Why Should Every Guy Bang At Least A Few “Not So Hot” Chicks In His Life?
Last week, we looked at “The Official Way To Judge A Woman’s Sexual Performance.” The article basically rated a woman's performance in bed. If you haven't read last week's article, please do so before continuing on.
Generally speaking, when it comes to looks, the less attractive a chick is, the higher her sexual performance will be. This means that banging “not so hot” chicks on a regular basis would result in much better quality sex for you.
In order to get your head around this idea, we will need to look at things from a different angle. Yes, we rate women all the time, usually from one (beast) to ten (diva), but that's not what we want here. We want to take into consideration how women feel about themselves personally.
For the sake of this article, let's just say that women would classify themselves into three distinct categories. Hot (8 to 10), normal (6 to 7) and “not so hot” (5 and below). This is very important because if a “not so hot” looking chick does very well in the self-confidence department, she will own her confidence like a hot chick. However, if you bang one of these girls, your sexual experience will not be better. Usually, you can quickly tell how a chick feels about herself in the first few minutes of a conversation – something you MUST analyze before you jump into bed with a “beast” thinking the sex will be awesome.
Before we dive into some clean-cut examples, I want to point out that sexual inexperience will overrule looks (if she's having sex for the third time in her life, it will still be below average). Finally, I also want to take age out of the equation, as we've already looked at that in last week's article.
So, let's get to it:
Hot Chicks (8 to 10)
These girls are hot and they know it. Many of them believe that being incredibly hot is more than enough for men and think that letting us sleep with them is a privilege most men never get to experience. They think that if they just take their clothes off and let us see their sexy naked bodies, the job is done. While that may be true for many virgin dudes out there, it's certainly not true for the ones that get regular tail.
This doesn't happen because they are selfish or narcissistic, it happens because every random Dick and Joe out there tells these women the same thing over and over, “OMG, I can't believe how beautiful you are.” It's only natural that, with all that attention and ass kissing, the woman has no reason to work for anything.
These women usually fall into the “The One That Doesn't Move” (aka The Starfish or The Doll) category, but I have met plenty who acted like “The One That's Scared” (aka The Virgin).
Sure, it's important to note that there are, indeed, EXCEPTIONS, but after you've slept with enough “models,” just because they looked hot, you will get the general idea.
Normal Chicks (6 to 7)
These girls find themselves in the middle of the attractiveness scale. This is where the result will vary completely depending on the chick's confidence level and overall sexual interest. This is also why you may have had some really good and really bad lays during your lifetime – mostly because it is in this category that your dick spends the majority of its time.
You will find all stages of sexual satisfaction in this category, and unless she tells you that BJ's are her favorite pastime, there's absolutely no way of knowing beforehand.
Not So Hot Chicks (5 and below)
This is where sh*t starts to change. Many of these girls have a lot of insecurities, and it's those insecurities that we must learn to love. You see, because these girls are completely aware that they do not fall into the “hot” category, they come up with a way to overcompensate. That way of overcompensating, my friend, is usually with sexual knowledge.
The frequency of “Pornstar” sex in this category is overwhelming. Granted, you need to have some balls to go in, but once it gets dark and things start progressing, oh boy, you will love it.
If you have the bad luck of finding a sexually inexperienced chick, she will probably fall into “The One That Tries Too Much” (aka The Disaster) category, but that's only for a while until she finds her true sexual mastery.
All girls in this category will do something extra to please you, which means, all of them will at least fall into “The One That Does Something” (aka The Girlfriend) competence stage. However, the majority of these women will do their absolute best to please you. That is why finding “The One That Knows” (aka The Pornstar) in this category really is a regular occurrence.
To put this simply, great sex and experience are the main reasons why every guy should bang at least one “not so hot” chick in his life. Just make sure she's honest about her looks; otherwise, you'll be terribly disappointed.
And if you're asking yourself why that friend of yours is still seeing that beast you all laughed about, know that the sex he's getting is probably awesome.
This is the sort of stuff I discuss on my blog and in the free eBook I give out. If you want to increase your success with women, visit ThePlayerGuide.com – a place where the dating mindset is thrown out the window in favor of more direct and fruitful methods of meeting and seducing women.
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