Let’s be realistic, a man could spend his entire lifespan attempting to decode the pertinent facts regarding the thought processes of women. We do not support the ineptitude of our fellow males and whole heartedly believe that all secrets are destined to be unveiled. Unfortunately, our female counterparts are far superior to ourselves at withholding information.
They simply play the courtship game with far greater finesse and aptitude. For sake of conversation, we are excluding the low self-esteemed girl that obsesses over a guy as she slowly looses her identity. She simply can’t be considered in the same category as the woman being discussed: we know her as the Elite woman.
The Elite woman is the woman every male is compelled to acquire. She is sexy, but undisclosed. She is smart, but down to earth. She is essentially the woman of your dreams. If you find a girl like this, ensure that you do not mistreat her because you are unlikely to receive a second opportunity. Letʼs take an in depth look at the mindset of an Elite woman.
The first thing she notices about a guy is how he carries himself. This is a crucial thirty minute period where she evaluates how you interact with people. When she pretends not to notice you, she is doing a thorough inspection of what type of person you are. Woman are exceptionally instinctual and perceptive of the characteristics of a male.
For analytical purposes, let us assume you have piqued her interest. You are confident, funny, attractive, and can carry a conversation. This is the point where she will subtly imply that she is interested in you. It may only be the ever so slightest implication, and in fact, you might even miss it.
Elite girls do not overtly display their attraction and interest in a male. She believes that it is a man’s job to pursue a woman. Unfortunately for our readers who seek instant gratification through females, no quality girl is going to commit to liking a man after one night. She may be processing the idea in her mind, but that’s the only place the idea will reside.
It is important to note that the overwhelming majority of women have been hurt by the childish antics of an immature, sexually promiscuous male in their lifetime. Because of this staggering amount of heartbreak, women will tend to have their guards up in the initial phases of courtship. After a girl has been cheated on, she may never be able to foster the trust in men that she once was able to.
In a relationship, it takes a woman about six months to open up to a guy. Just because she tells you about her day doesn’t mean that she has begun to confide in you. If you get this dream girl to let you in, she is committed to you and only you. This rarity takes conscious effort from a man, as he must prove over time that he is trustworthy ! It may seem as though up until this point, the male has done all of the work. It is true, he has.
This is what it takes to date an Elite girl. The up side is that once this dream girl allows you in, she has decided that you are a good investment. At this point, she will begin to treat you as such and make sure to ensure the longevity of your relationship.
Your dream girl is like a 458 Ferrari–you canʼt get it without negotiation, but once you have it, it drives better than any car youʼve ever had, figuratively and literally.
Jenna Todey | Elite.