How To Woo Her At The Bar

How To Woo Her At The Bar
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Girls can be very tricky when it comes to dealing with men at a bar or any social gathering for that matter. There are a few signs she will show if she is interested or not.

While many find it hard to read these signs, an elite man can easily distinguish who is chasing them and who is worth chasing.

Girls show many subliminal messages that, if paid attention to, can lead to a high success rate or show that she simply does not want any part of you. One of the main signals a woman can show you at a bar is eye contact. People in general tend to concentrate on what attracts them. If you notice she is constantly looking your way or your eyes meet on multiple occasions it may be time to approach her.

When approaching a woman it is important to come off as confident. Women love a man with a sense of confidence because let’s face it, if you aren’t confident with yourself, how can she be confident she is making the right decision to be with you?

After approaching with confidence it is important to look for other signs she is still interested in you after conversation has started. If she is constantly looking away from you or seems distracted by friends or others in the bar, she most likely lost interest after getting to know you a little.

If she seems to be laughing at things that are not even that funny, you are in. Showing you have a good sense of humor will also show you are amusing and compatible.

Another sign to look for while engaging in conversation is her feet. If she has her feet pointing directly at you it shows she s giving you her full attention. It shows that she is putting all her focus on you and this is where you can capitalize on moving to the next step.

Touch is also an important indicator she is still intrigued and attracted to you. If you take notice of her feeling your arm or touching your leg while in conversation, it shows she is comfortable enough with you that she is opening up.

How To Woo Her At The Bar

Once you have taken it past this point, it is on you to seal the deal. Knowing she is up for the task of being with an elite man, you should have no problems exchanging numbers and, if you are lucky enough, bringing her back from the party.

Rob Hausler | Elite. 

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Serge Efap, the former fratstar turned self-proclaimed Renaissance Man hails from New York City. Growing up quickly, he learned that if you want something, you have to go get it for yourself. When he's not reminiscing about the glory days, you can find him searching for the next big thing.

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