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5 Things A Male Scorpio Needs From His Significant Other To Thrive

First things first, let’s look at the Scorpio man.

Scorpios are fiercely independent creatures, and once they set their minds to something, they are able to do anything and will not give up until they’re done.

Scorpios are also perfectly suited to being on their own, and with this trait, they love being in control.

You will not often find them out socializing where they have no control over their environment; you will find them comfortable at home.

Here are five things a male Scorpio will need from his boyfriend:

1. He needs to be able to trust you.

If he’s at home and you are out all the time, he needs to be able to trust you.

The Scorpio man, once tamed will be nothing but loyal to you. In this loyalty, he needs to know that you are the only one for him.

Think of the scorpion. When it feels threatened, it stings.

The male Scorpio will turn on you before you realize what has happened if he suspects the vow of trust has been broken or merely threatened.


2. He needs to know you’re an equal.

If you show the slightest sign of weakness or naiveté, he’ll sniff it out before you’ve even met.

More often than not, this will also be a reason he will approach you in the first place.

Having said that, this is an unfortunate trait of the lesser-evolved Scorpio man.

They have the power to manipulate you, turn things back on you and make everything seem like your fault.

If it is a Scorpio you’re seeking for a mate, be very aware of this, and be firm and secure in yourself, for if he encounters an equal, the dynamic will work well.

Sure, there will be explosive moments, but you will work out healthy ways to deal with that.

Don’t make the mistake of letting him know you are actively being his equal, either, for the male Scorpio must feel at all times he has one up on others.


3. Keep him guessing.

The Scorpio man bores easily and will leave if you’re not stimulating him on an intellectual level.

He has strong opinions and thoughts and can often look like he’s on another planet with the daydreaming look in his eyes, but rest assured: He is more than present, and evaluating every part of the situation.

This is a tricky act to balance.

As we learned earlier, the Scorpio man is a very jealous character, so you don’t want him guessing where you’ve been or who you’re seeing.

You want to keep him guessing on a brain level, but not too much. Good luck.


4. He needs passionate sex.

Be ready to be seduced by him at a moments notice and just let it happen.

Scorpio men are always ready and go with the flow.

They are energetic beings who know no boundaries when it comes to expressing themselves sexually.

They will want you to allow them to demonstrate their skills in this area, and there are many.

Don’t worry about it getting too rough and ready though, a Scorpio will always treat you like the perfect gentleman in the bedroom because he respects you and always will.

If you’ve kept to the tips so far, then you’ll be just fine.


5. He wants the mushy stuff, but don’t talk about it.

The Scorpio man is emotional and sensitive, though it is hidden beneath a tough and composed exterior.

Don’t be over the top and too mushy. But also be sensitive and don’t criticize his ways in the relationship because he is easily hurt.

The male Scorpio is the most extreme and intense sign in astrology.

He exhibits a cool and composed exterior, but beneath that, he is one of immense passion, extreme strength and constant drive.

He does everything with absolute dedication and perfection, so trust him when it comes to how he’s loving you and treating you in the relationship.

He’s doing it in his own way and with your best interests in mind.

So, if you want an easy ride in a relationship, put that on your Grindr profile.

But if you’re willing to accept the challenge and passion is one of your top needs, by all means date a Scorpio.

It will be passion that you will only experience with them and them alone.

If you are someone who is seeking a lot of experiences in life, then this is one you simply cannot pass up.

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Jamie Scanlon

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