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Here's What Guys Describe As The Best, Most Memorable Sex They've Ever Had

The BEST sex you've ever had. Can you remember it?

Well, even if you can't remember a specific time, odds are, you remember a specific type of sex. There was something that made some sex better than the rest.

Now, obviously, we're all thinking the same thing: What was that something, and how do I know if I've done it with any of my partners?

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Well, wonder no more! A recent Reddit thread asked dudes to describe the best sex they've ever had. They all boiled down to a few common themes ranging from an enthusiastic partner to open communication.

Read along and see what guys count as THE BEST SEX EVER:

For these guys, it happened when a girl was enthusiastic about getting boinked by him.

When a woman can convince me that she NEEDS more cock, right now, while we are having sex. It's only happened a handful of times, but holy shit. It was like sexual heroin.

EDIT: (With body language not words, just to be clear)


Enthusiasm on the girl's part.

I've been with 2 women in my life. The first was insatiable, the second turned out to be a lesbian.

That 'discovery' certainly didn't surprise me, based on how sexual she is in general (conversation, openness, kinks etc) compared to "into it" she actually was in bed.


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Enthusiasm (visibly enjoying yourself and putting in effort), free spiritedness (sitting on my face without hesitation and doing other things some people have hangups about) and communication all lead to great sex in my opinion.


Good sex, in general, is about mutual enthusiasm. That is the biggest factor. I don't just want to "get my dick wet", I want her to love the experience, herself.

Also, it's nice to get more than "I don't know" as an answer to my question "What do you want me to do to you?" Knowing what you like, and being OK with asking for it, is important.


When she knew my fetish, is enthusiastic and the one to start it.


For this guy, it's all about the emotional connection.

The best sex I had was when I made love.


For this guy, good sex is “animalistic.”

In general, when I'm asking a girl what she likes and she says 'you can do whatever you want and I'll tell you to stop if I don't like it' I know I'm going to have a wonderful evening. Most likely she is going to as well. I'm pretty into kink, so that has a very broad context attached to it.

The best sex I've ever had I would call animalistic sex. It's something I've only had three or four times and requires a partner who's as aroused as I am. It's usually the third or fourth time in a session and the pheromones have filled the room and all the social pretense is stripped away and it's just two animals fucking. Rough sex in various positions with her biting, scratching, me pinning her down. Total domination and submission. Usually accompanied with copious amounts sweat from both sexes and lots of bodily fluids. From what they told me it was the best sex they've ever had as well.

More importantly you can basically see into the soul of your partner. Are they Giving? Selfish? Proud? Submissive? Dominant? Bold? Timid? I've learned more about people in 30 minutes of sex then I had in the years of knowing them leading up to intercourse.


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For this modern-day Casanova, it's all about the woman's pleasure.

Basically, how many times does my partner cum.


For these guys, communication is huge.

Good sex to me is phenomenal sexual chemistry in addition to being well aware of what each other enjoys. Communication goes far~

Then a high five at the end! "Way to go! We won at sex!"


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It really just comes down to how you view "best sex."

The most memorable experiences were, for the most part, one night stands just because of the rush you get from hooking up with someone you don't know very well. When you don't necessarily plan on or expect sex it's this massive build up of emotions that happens in a very short amount of time.

However, the sex I enjoyed the most was in relationships with open communication.


For this guy, the thrill makes the sex so much better.

I've always thought good sex was very hard to quantify. It's some nebulous combination of attraction, arousal, and timing. Knowing the girl just wants to be fucked is a big part for me.

Best sex I've had all the above factors plus the thrill/taboo of danger/getting caught going for both of us. The whole forbidden fruit thing is real.


For this dude, great sex just happens.

Spontaneity. Good sex can be planned. Really good sex? It just happens.


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For this guy, it's just straight up porn sex.

Good sex to me is "Porn" sex. Very straightforward and easy to quantify. I had a woman like that that I will never forget. It was fun, we pushed each other and had a great time.

Great sex is more, it's the difference between remembering the acts to remembering the person. With great sex, it could be as vanilla as possible, but you'll remember the person. Good sex…well, you may be lucky to remember her at all.

Just remember, the day after it's all said and done, if you're thinking about her instead of what she did. Give her a call.


Easy enough, right?

Citations: What constitutes as 'good sex' to you and what made a girl memorable to you when you discuss the 'best sex you've ever had?' (Reddit)

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Candice Jalili


Candice is a staff writer here at Elite Daily. She possesses both the body and the humor of a 15-year-old boy while she enjoys the lifestyle of a 75-year-old woman.
Candice is a staff writer here at Elite Daily. She possesses both the body and the humor of a 15-year-old boy while she enjoys the lifestyle of a 75-year-old woman.

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