I’ve had my fair share of girl-girl-guy threesomes. I’ve also had the guy-guy-girl, but being a guy myself, those are not nearly as much fun. This article will fill you in on the two best ways to land a girl-girl-guy threesome. In order to be successful at both methods, you need to have a high level of experience. This is not something that will happen overnight, but if you work it correctly, you might be shocked at the results.
First, introduce the girls to each other.
This sounds like a simple process, but it’s fairly difficult to pull off.
Step 1: You first need to consider two women you’d like to do this with. It’s actually vital that you’ve already slept with both of them, as it gets a lot more difficult if one of them hasn’t seen you naked and vice versa. Ideally, you should have slept with both for quite some time, enough time to make them very comfortable around you. You don’t want your frigid ex, rather you want two girls that are open-minded, liberal and who might also be bi-curious, or just sexually adventurous.
Step 2: When you’re alone with them, bring up the topic of bisexuality; a good time to do this would be in bed, either before or after sex. If she seems keen on the idea, bring up the topic as a ‘thought experiment.’ Make it seem very positive, and if she seems somewhat into it, try talking about it during sex (part of your dirty talk). What I’ve noticed over the years is that many women have some sort of bisexuality towards other women; however, most of them aren’t up for the deed. Some of the women I’ve been with are open to the idea, but are not comfortable with it. If it turns out to be the same in your case, your number one priority will be to make her comfortable with the idea.
Step 3: Ok, so by now, you should have both women comfortable with the idea. Let a few weeks slide by, and bring it up again, mentioning, “You know, I know this really hot girl. She’s bi (or just into it), and I’m sure she’d wanna do something like that.” The girls won’t mind if you slept with the other one, in fact, in some cases it helped me (it was somewhat like an acknowledgement). If both girls seem into it, giving it a try wouldn’t take much effort.
Step 4: Plan a meeting. Tell both women the exact same things (you might be meeting the other one tonight, and ask if she minds to meet her, as well). Don’t make plans, or anything set in stone, as that will only freak her out.
Step 5: Set up a place and time. You don’t need me to tell you how to pick a place and all that, but make it all seem spontaneous. I know you mentioned it to them, but just make it feel it’s a spur of the moment thing.
Step 6: As soon as you get there, you’ll know instantly if it’s on or not. The girls will decide this on the spot. If it’s working, you can tell by the way they talk, if they’re acting nervous or slightly tense, etc. If it’s not working, yes, you’ve lost weeks of planning, but it was just a shot. Always remember that you were having sex with two women for the past months, and you just tried to do them together, at the same time. Trust me, I had things blow up in my face countless times.
Step 7: If it’s working, get some alcohol flowing - the more the better.
Step 8: Ideally, you want to take the girls to your place, but be careful with the invitation, as not to freak one out. They should both be comfortable with your place.
Step 9: At the house, start making out with one girl, then move onto the other, and then get them involved with each other. If this is happening, you’re pretty much set.
It’s worth mentioning that any girl you approach to do this might freak out at this point. If it hasn’t happened by now, it’s definitely on!
Second, incorporate your bisexual girlfriend.
Ok, so a few years ago, I had this bisexual girlfriend. She was hot and even better she was hot for the same sex. Now, even though she’s bisexual, it doesn’t mean she was bringing girls home for me to have sex with. Being bisexual just means that she has sex with girls. She could either have a girlfriend, or a boyfriend. When she was with me, it was my job to make her want other girls and to make her ok with bringing other girls into bed with us.
In any case, if you ever manage to secure a bisexual girlfriend, here’s how you play the game.
To get things straight here, I know you’re a guy and have game, but when it comes to picking up the other girl, your bisexual girlfriend should be doing all the work. She will own it much better than you, and here’s why:
-She very rarely gets rejected, if ever…
-She can identify bi-curious girls instantly. A big mistake I was always making was working girls for 30 minutes, only to discover that they weren’t into other girls. Let your girl open the topic - she’s going to be good at spotting this.
The only exception here is in groups. Hardly any girl acts like men do (i.e., open up a group of girls and picks one, etc.). That’s when you step in, grab a girl, isolate her from the group, and then, get your bisexual girlfriend to step in.
Most girlfriends love doing things together, including “picking-up together,” but when you tell them, “Ok, go open up that group and pick that blonde over there,” they get nervous and want to spend the night with only you.
Anyway, the reason you still want her to open is because she knows instantly if the other girl is up for it. Regardless of how good your game is, when you ask a girl for a threesome she will always question your motives. She’s just less likely to believe you. A few times I still managed to get the second girl by myself (at least one hour of work, compared to ten minutes spent by my girlfriend), and in this scenario, apart from my girlfriend being upset that she was sitting alone for an hour, she would also think that the other one just wanted to have sex with me, not with both of us.
Always remember, threesomes are all about the girls. You’re just along for the ride.
So, she does the pick-up, she brings her to you, and you start to flirt and generally get to know each other. By this time, your bisexual girlfriend should make the proposition of coming home with you. Now, it’s here where most women realize that this is actually for real and freak out. In my experience, about half of them do that. They either leave straight up, or they’re flattered, but can’t actually go through with it.
If you’re lucky, and she agrees, it’s up to you to sort everything out. Get the ladies drinks, keep them feeling good and entertained, flirt with them both, be sexual and touchy with both, etc.
This is when the women start to gang up on you. They all do it, all the time. They tease you, make fun of you, etc. Let it happen. I usually just sit there thinking to myself, “Blah, blah, blah… In about an hour, I’m going to have sex with both of you. Ha ha!” Everything the women say and tease doesn’t really matter. I do have to admit, it might feel uncomfortable sometimes, but deal with it. You’re a man, right?
Either you or your girlfriend can initiate the first kiss. Initially, I always let my girlfriend do it, but as we did it more, I tried going in first, and it worked just as well.
Now, it’s time to take them home. Like always, once you’re all home together, let them get comfortable, get them more drinks, play some music and let loose. A woman might still freak out at this point, but if they got this far, most women will let it happen.
Finally…
Make sure you and your girlfriend clarify things. Make sure you let her go down on the other girl, or the other way around. Also clarify that you can do your business with the other girl. I know some guys who have had threesomes and ended up only having sex with their girlfriends. What’s the point of that? Whatever you do, make sure you make it worth it!
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