• Alexia LaFata in Dating

    6 Things To Remember If You're Freaking Out About Having Sex On The First Date

    6 Things To Remember If You're Freaking Out About Having Sex On The First Date

    So, you had sex on the first date. Maybe you got a little too drunk, or you let your vagina do too much of the talking, or you just wanted to freaking get laid. Whatever the reason, you're probably hearing your mother's voice inside your head telling you that you gave away the milk for free, and you're […]
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    29 Tweets About Going Out To Meet Guys That'll Make You Want To Both Rage And Nap

    29 Tweets About Going Out To Meet Guys That'll Make You Want To Both Rage And Nap

    Going out to meet guys can be the literal worst. You have to overcome the anxiety of actually getting up from your soft, cozy couch. Then, you have to pick an outfit, which means you've got at least an hour of violently rummaging through your closet to find something that doesn't make you feel like you're trapped in sausage casing. And […]
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    How This Man Proposed To A Woman He'd Never Met Will Make You Believe In “The One”

    How This Man Proposed To A Woman He'd Never Met Will Make You Believe In “The One”

    Have you ever felt hopeless about finding your forever person? That no matter how many guys you talk to at bars, how many times you swipe right on Tinder, how many relatives swear they know the perfect guy to set you up with, “the one” for you is just… not out there? Well, this story of a young woman named […]
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    Guys Reveal Situations Where They'd Pull Away If They Liked You Too Much

    Guys Reveal Situations Where They'd Pull Away If They Liked You Too Much

    Women have often been told that when a guy likes you, it's simple: He asks you out, he follows through on the next date, and he commits to you sooner rather than later. Still, that hasn't stopped us from overanalyzing the sh*t out of every single male behavior, hoping to crack some secret code about the way they […]
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    7 Lessons I Learned After Meeting Up IRL With A Guy Who Ghosted Me

    7 Lessons I Learned After Meeting Up IRL With A Guy Who Ghosted Me

    I was once ghosted by a guy after we dated for a little over a month. I matched with him one night on Tinder, and we chatted briefly on the app before moving to texting, then to a date at a Spanish restaurant. Our first date went extremely well. He was funny, kind, and a strong, built 6'6″ — a […]
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    22 People On The Song That Reminds Them Of Their Most Significant Ex

    22 People On The Song That Reminds Them Of Their Most Significant Ex

    Music is easily one of the more powerful reminders of our past. Specifically, our romantic past. Songs can transport us back to an entire time period — a stretch of a week, a few months, a few years  — or a single fleeting moment in a relationship. They can make us feel wistful. Nostalgic. Hollow. Pathetic. Destroyed. And the […]
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    The 7 Signs Ben And Lauren Were Never Going To Make It, As Told By Experts

    The 7 Signs Ben And Lauren Were Never Going To Make It, As Told By Experts

    The somewhat inevitable has finally happened: “The Bachelor” Ben Higgins and Lauren Bushnell have broken up. Yes, we're all half-ironically/half-seriously heartbroken over this, but all diehard fans knew that Ben and Lauren's relationship wasn't exactly the greatest. Lauren struggled with jealousy over JoJo, and Ben didn't express an interest in getting married any time soon, which really upset Lauren since he, um, proposed. […]
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    11 Things We Say To Men We Date That Somehow Make Them Think We're Getting ‘Too Serious'

    11 Things We Say To Men We Date That Somehow Make Them Think We're Getting ‘Too Serious'

    If there's one thing so many people our age have in common, it's the crippling, all-encompassing, heart-stopping fear of GETTING TOO SERIOUS WITH SOMEONE. The unfortunate byproduct of this is that a very simple, very innocuous “Hey, do you want to hang out this week?” can be interpreted as “Hey, do you want to get married, move to […]
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    5 Things To Say During The First 5 Minutes Of A Tinder Date To Make It Less Awkward

    5 Things To Say During The First 5 Minutes Of A Tinder Date To Make It Less Awkward

    Going on a date is always nerve-wracking. But it's even more nerve-wracking when your date is a literal stranger from the internet. Will he look like his pictures? Will the chemistry you had on the app messenger system translate to real life? Is he actually going to be a serial killer? It's challenging to know how to start […]
  • Alexia LaFata on Love Hurts

    Sorry Ladies, Guys Are Turned Off By Your Witty Personality If You're Not Hot

    Sorry Ladies, Guys Are Turned Off By Your Witty Personality If You're Not Hot

    They say looks aren't everything when it comes to dating. For the most part, this is certainly true. Being physically attractive can only do so much for you if you're boring, vapid or unintelligent. We have all fallen for the trap of believing that someone is perfect simply because of how hot they were, only to later […]
  • Alexia LaFata in TV

    A Ranking Of The Best And Worst Guys From ‘Girls' To Have A One-Night Stand With

    A Ranking Of The Best And Worst Guys From ‘Girls' To Have A One-Night Stand With

    The last ever episode of “Girls” airs this Sunday at 10 pm on HBO. No doubt, this show has changed the way this generation is perceived (think: whiny, entitled, narcissistic, selfish… the list goes on and on) and the way it perceives the world, sparking think pieces about realistic sex, nudity and what it means to […]
  • Alexia LaFata in Social News

    This Teen Sold Her Virginity For $2 Million To A Businessman From An Escort Site

    This Teen Sold Her Virginity For $2 Million To A Businessman From An Escort Site

    An 18-year-old girl named Aleexandra Kefren has sold her virginity to a businessman online for 2.3 million Euros ($2.4 million), according to Metro. Kefren had been auctioning off her virginity for months on Cinderella Escorts, a “world-famous” escort agency website, when an unnamed Chinese businessman offered her this absurdly high amount. She said she has even already spoken to her “buyer” on […]