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    The Difference Between Relationships With Instant Attraction And Ones Where Attraction Grows

    The Difference Between Relationships With Instant Attraction And Ones Where Attraction Grows

    Have you ever started dating someone you weren't sure you actually liked? Yes, you had a good enough time with them, and you were OK with them putting their arm around you… but something inside of you wasn't completely sold yet? It's normal to wonder, “Can attraction grow?” when you're experiencing this type of relationship. It's also normal to lust […]
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    The Only Way To Get Over A Breakup Sucks In The Moment, But It Definitely Works

    The Only Way To Get Over A Breakup Sucks In The Moment, But It Definitely Works

    I've had a couple of really brutal breakups in my life. One of the worst ones happened in college. I was in a three-year, on-again off-again relationship that drained my emotional resources and left me feeling pretty hollow and worthless. Whenever I was sad over this breakup, my friends would encourage me to do something […]
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    A Charlottesville White Supremacist Just Got His OkCupid Account Banned For Life

    A Charlottesville White Supremacist Just Got His OkCupid Account Banned For Life

    If you're a white supremacist, you do not have the luxury to freely search the internet for someone to cuddle you when you are lonely at night. That's what OkCupid officially decided today when they banned white supremacist Chris Cantwell, one of the people VICE followed around in their epic documentary on the protests in Charlottesville, from the dating website. […]
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    This Woman's Story Of Being Born Without A Vagina Will Seriously Break Your Heart

    This Woman's Story Of Being Born Without A Vagina Will Seriously Break Your Heart

    When Kaylee Moats was 18 years old, she went to the doctor to figure out why she hadn't gotten her period yet. After all, her 12-year-old sister had gotten it, so clearly, something was wrong. Doctors then gave her an MRI and discovered that Moats had Mayer Rokitansky Kuster Hauser syndrome (MRKH), a rare condition that left her without […]
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    Women Reveal The Most Cringeworthy Way A Guy Has Tried To Flirt With Them

    Women Reveal The Most Cringeworthy Way A Guy Has Tried To Flirt With Them

    Men who have crushes on women are truly the most precious human beings on the planet. I don't mean that in a patronizing way — I mean it earnestly! Have you ever really studied the dynamic between, say, your friend and a guy you know likes her? There's such a clear way to tell how guys flirt with girls they […]
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    How To Figure Out What Turns You On When You Have Absolutely No Freaking Idea

    How To Figure Out What Turns You On When You Have Absolutely No Freaking Idea

    It's no secret that sexuality is one of the weirdest, most bizarre things on Earth. What is really hot for one person can be extremely meh — or even extremely gross — to another. That's why if you want to know how to figure out what turns you on in bed, you have to start by remembering the […]
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    How To Make Sure Your Dating Life Doesn't Suck When Mercury Is In Retrograde

    How To Make Sure Your Dating Life Doesn't Suck When Mercury Is In Retrograde

    If you're wondering why everything seems a little more terrible than usual, look to the sky. Mercury is currently in retrograde, and we're all feeling a little more bloated, irritable, and sad than we usually do. (Or maybe that's just my period.) And if you're dating during Mercury retrograde, you might be feeling like you're bringing the sh*ttiest version […]
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    Here's Proof That First Dates You Think Will Suck Can Actually Turn Out Really Well

    Here's Proof That First Dates You Think Will Suck Can Actually Turn Out Really Well

    First dates are such a crapshoot. Even if you appear to have a connection with someone on Tinder before finally meeting in person, your date could suck IRL. Perhaps he's not as funny on the fly as he is via text, or he gets just a little too drunk in front of you and dominates the conversation with his slurred words. […]
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    How To Date A Trump Supporter As The World Burns Around Both Of You

    How To Date A Trump Supporter As The World Burns Around Both Of You

    It is the understatement of the century to say that President Trump has been doing some extremely un-presidential things lately. From taking two days to respond to the devastating events in Charlottesville to saying that a neo-Nazi march was not entirely the fault of neo-Nazis (???), it's hard to imagine how someone would ever be dating a Trump supporter during this […]
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    These Are The Conversations Guys Have With Their Friends When They See A Hot Girl

    These Are The Conversations Guys Have With Their Friends When They See A Hot Girl

    I've always wondered what guys talk about when they're with their friends and they see a really hot girl. Do they just nod at each other in agreement? Do they say nothing? Do they describe all the disgusting things they want to do to her in graphic detail? Do they grunt and puff out their chests so […]
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    Guys Are AirDropping Dick Pics On The Subway Because This Is The Fresh Hell We Deal With Now

    Guys Are AirDropping Dick Pics On The Subway Because This Is The Fresh Hell We Deal With Now

    Well, guys, just as you finally decided 2017 was the year we were going to completely regress as a culture (see: Charlottesville), this piece of news comes along to confirm it even further. According to a report by the New York Post, men are AirDropping dick pics to unsuspecting subway riders in New York City, proving that human beings will always find […]
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    17 Tweets About Getting Married That'll Make You Wonder Why Anybody Would Do This

    17 Tweets About Getting Married That'll Make You Wonder Why Anybody Would Do This

    My parents are high school sweethearts. (I know, it's adorable.) Some days, I am convinced they're truly in love. They are affectionate with each other and really do seem like they're each other's partner-in-crime, and it's a beautiful thing to witness. Other days, they solely communicate through bloodcurdling screams. It is miraculous and somewhat hilarious to watch how rapidly […]