Alexia LaFata on Nice Guy vs. F*ckboy

A Nice Guy And A F*ckboy Analyze How To Tell If You’re The Rebound

A Nice Guy And A F*ckboy Analyze How To Tell If You’re The Rebound

Dear Nice Guy and Fuckboy, A few months ago, I decided to give Tinder another shot after taking a year off just to be single. I really didn’t have much hope in really meeting someone there, but I thought I’d at least start putting myself out there. I ended up meeting someone who I thought […]

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Alexia LaFata in Dating

This Sunday Is The Best Day To Sign Up For A Dating Site, Science Says

This Sunday Is The Best Day To Sign Up For A Dating Site, Science Says

Still in that “New Year, New Me” mindset? Yeah, me too. I’ve even stuck to my resolution to eat more vegetables! (Check back with me in a week.) The hype about ~starting over~ around this time of year is admittedly kind of eye-rolly, but there really is nothing better than a fresh start, is there? Especially when it […]

Alexia LaFata on Let's Talk About Sex

What Guys Think It Means If You Don’t Spend The Night After Hooking Up

What Guys Think It Means If You Don’t Spend The Night After Hooking Up

You just had a great night at your hookup’s apartment. It’s 4 am, and now, you must ask yourself the inevitable question: Do I spend the night? We’ve all been there. It’s so warm in his bed, and it’s cold and miserable outside… so spending the night doesn’t sound half bad. Then again, your bed at […]

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Alexia LaFata in Women

Lena Dunham Says She ‘Wishes’ She Had An Abortion And People Are Furious

Lena Dunham Says She ‘Wishes’ She Had An Abortion And People Are Furious

Ah, abortions and Lena Dunham. Does the internet hate any two things more? Lena Dunham is receiving a lot of criticism for a statement she made about abortion on a recent episode of her podcast, “Women Of The Hour.” She says she grew up in a staunchly pro-choice household, and even though she herself has never had an abortion, she […]

Alexia LaFata on Nice Guy vs. F*ckboy

Why Your Guy Is Always Leaving You, Then Coming Back

Why Your Guy Is Always Leaving You, Then Coming Back

Nice guy and fuckboy, Maybe you can help me out. I’m lost and confused. I’ve been with this guy for four years and we can’t seem to get things right. Our relationship is either really good or really bad — there is no happy medium. We’ve been doing well for almost a year, but then, […]

Alexia LaFata on ADD For ALL

91 Percent Of My Generation Doesn’t Think Taking Adderall Is Cheating, But I Do

91 Percent Of My Generation Doesn’t Think Taking Adderall Is Cheating, But I Do

In college, there’s so much pressure on students to succeed at having a perfectly balanced life. You not only have to get good grades, but you also have to be involved in extracurricular activities, volunteer in service groups, network like crazy, do your laundry and somehow have an active social life. It can be hard to […]

Alexia LaFata on Digital Generation

Tinder Is Now On Apple TV Because Dating Just Needed To Get Worse

Tinder Is Now On Apple TV Because Dating Just Needed To Get Worse

If you haven’t hopped on the Tinder bandwagon yet, you’re either naïve enough to believe your life is like a rom-com in which you’ll have an adorable, IRL meet-cute with your next boyfriend, OR you think Tinder is just creepy. For those of you in the latter camp, get ready to think it’s eeeeeven creepier. Tinder announced today […]

Alexia LaFata in Social News

Drunk Guy Who Used Every Single App To Ask His GF If She’s Mad At Him Is All Of Us

Drunk Guy Who Used Every Single App To Ask His GF If She’s Mad At Him Is All Of Us

We can all relate to this drunk guy who thought his girlfriend was mad at him for something he did that, honestly, is not worth getting mad over. Kieron Cameron, an 18-year-old from Scotland, went out to a birthday party one afternoon and got drunk, according to Buzzfeed News. His girlfriend, Jodie Duncan, 16, stayed home because […]

Alexia LaFata on Nice Guy vs. F*ckboy

What It Means When A Co-Worker You Were Hooking Up With Starts Acting Distant

What It Means When A Co-Worker You Were Hooking Up With Starts Acting Distant

Dear Nice Guy and Fuckboy, I have been in a roller coaster “more than friends but not a relationship” thing for almost a year now with a guy I work with. For the first four months of our “thing,” we just partook in daily texting and constant flirting. Then we started going out, meeting each […]

Alexia LaFata on Dating & Dollars

What Men Think When You ‘Fake Reach’ For Your Wallet At The End Of A Date

What Men Think When You ‘Fake Reach’ For Your Wallet At The End Of A Date

It’s engrained in our ~chivalrous~ American culture that a man will pay the bill on the first date. When he pulls out his credit card, some girls will say nothing. Some girls will insist on splitting the bill. And some girls will do the “fake wallet reach.” The fake wallet reach is when a girl goes into her purse to “grab” her […]