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    How You Can Talk About Using Sex Toys In The Bedroom With A Guy

    How You Can Talk About Using Sex Toys In The Bedroom With A Guy

    If you didn't already know, research has shown most women need clitoral stimulation to orgasm, as 70 percent of women can't finish from P-in-V sex alone, according to Psychology Today. I am not that great at math, but I do know enough to understand that most women need some sort of added stimulation in order to come […]
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    8 Questions To Ask Yourself Before You Go On A Second Date With Someone

    8 Questions To Ask Yourself Before You Go On A Second Date With Someone

    I once went on a first date with a guy who sent his food back three different times and tweeted about it during the duration of our date. I ended up going on a second date with him anyway. Why? Because I didn't know what questions to ask myself after a first date to know […]
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    How To Get Over Someone You Hooked Up With But Didn't Actually Date

    How To Get Over Someone You Hooked Up With But Didn't Actually Date

    Feel incredibly connected to that one-night stand you had, or guy you hooked up with only a few times but never saw again? Well, there's actually a scientific reason for that. According to a study published in the Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin, sex motivates you to disclose some of your deepest, darkest secrets (turns out it's […]
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    5 Tips For Making Your Tinder Profile Stand Out, According To An Expert

    5 Tips For Making Your Tinder Profile Stand Out, According To An Expert

    At some point during online dating, you become so desensitized from all the swiping, that it's hard to remember you're looking at actual people. It's like in that season of The Bachelorette where literally every guy looked the same. Dating apps can start to become a lot more about quantity over quality. So to separate yourself from […]
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    How To Support Victims Of Sexual Assault When They Need It Most

    How To Support Victims Of Sexual Assault When They Need It Most

    How can you support victims of sexual assault when they need it most? This particular issue has become a major topic of conversation, due to the rocky start (to put it lightly) of this season's Bachelor in Paradise. On June 11, Warner Brothers issued a statement that they were halting production of Bachelor in Paradise […]
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    If Your Partner Has These 8 Special Qualities, You Should Never Let Him Go

    If Your Partner Has These 8 Special Qualities, You Should Never Let Him Go

    As you get older, the things you are looking for in a partner tend to change. I used to think that if a guy had tattoos, hated me, and wasn't looking for anything serious, I absolutely should never let him go. That was a relationship worth working for! He'd come around! Husband material! But after […]
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    6 Dos And Don'ts Of Ghosting If You're Thinking About Doing It To Someone

    6 Dos And Don'ts Of Ghosting If You're Thinking About Doing It To Someone

    We all know what it's like to be ghosted. You go on two dates with someone, think you really hit it off, and then, you never hear from them again. In my mind, I'd like to believe that they were in the CIA and that the government made them change their number because they were […]
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    6 Stages Of Letting Go Every Couple Goes Through Before A Breakup

    6 Stages Of Letting Go Every Couple Goes Through Before A Breakup

    It was very easy for me to tell when my last boyfriend was pulling away from me before we broke up. You know how it feels — the breakup before the breakup. He stopped sleeping over at my house. He no longer showed affection to me in public. The guy I liked because he was a […]
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    10 Questions To Ask Yourself Before Swiping Right On A Dating App

    10 Questions To Ask Yourself Before Swiping Right On A Dating App

    You can't just swipe right on anyone. Dating apps are a lawless land. It's dangerous out there. You have to swipe with some sort of discretion, or who knows whom you'll end up with. A soulmate or a sociopath — those are the only two options in my book! Women put a lot of effort […]
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    I Only Messaged Guys On Tinder With Trump Quotes And They Didn't Even Realize

    I Only Messaged Guys On Tinder With Trump Quotes And They Didn't Even Realize

    Tinder is the equivalent of last call at the bar. You've tried all the other apps, it's 2 a.m., time to go home, you'll pretty much swipe on anyone, and whoever you match with will do. If they're employed and not a serial killer, they could be my husband, right? Since Tinder is kind of […]