• Barrett Pall on Queer Culture

    Let’s Lift Each Other Up: 10 Reasons The Gay Community Is Competitive

    Let’s Lift Each Other Up: 10 Reasons The Gay Community Is Competitive

    In a community built on a foundation that we all know what it’s like to be different and face some sort of discrimination, why do we feel the need to constantly cut each other down? Since I have come out, I have encountered many different types of gay men. Like all communities, no one is exactly the […]
  • Barrett Pall in Motivation

    Live Authentically: 10 Reasons You Need To Rid Your Life Of Bullsh*t

    Live Authentically: 10 Reasons You Need To Rid Your Life Of Bullsh*t

    About a year and a half ago, I decided I was done with the bullsh*t. I had been living a life that wasn't genuine, authentic or even remotely what I wanted. I worried about what others thought of me, and while I may have looked happy, I was in fact not. After making a conscious effort […]
  • Barrett Pall in Culture

    Only The Strong Survive: Why I Have A Never-Ending Love For NYC

    Only The Strong Survive: Why I Have A Never-Ending Love For NYC

    I missed you so much. I talked about you every day. I dreamt of you and yearned for you. I would stalk you online and hear stories from my friends about how great you were doing. I romanticized you and talked you up. Nothing could compare to you. I truly thought we were meant to […]