• Kimmy Foskett in Dating

    6 Things The Person You're Dating Will Only Do If They Want A Serious Relationship

    6 Things The Person You're Dating Will Only Do If They Want A Serious Relationship

    In a perfect world, if the person you're dating wants something serious with you, they would simply say, “Hey, I want a serious relationship with you.” But it's 2017, our president just stared directly into a solar eclipse, and the world is far from perfect. Your date could have an engagement ring picked out for you, and they […]
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    Women Reveal What They Thought About Sex After Their First Time & It's So Relatable

    Women Reveal What They Thought About Sex After Their First Time & It's So Relatable

    Everyone has a story about their first time. Maybe it was in their parents' basement, on a soccer field, or in a drugstore parking lot. I feel like I weirdly know where and when my female friends first did it, but I don't necessarily know what they actually thought about having sex for the first time. After all of the […]
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    How To Use Tinder If You Want To Hook Up With Someone Tonight

    How To Use Tinder If You Want To Hook Up With Someone Tonight

    So you want to hook up like… now. Tonight. On demand. No strings attached. The good news is that you're using the right app for that (Tinder). The bad news is… well, there really isn't any bad news, as long as you play it safe and don't get murdered. (Yes, I'm an alarmist.) I've never […]
  • Kimmy Foskett in Dating

    This Is The Difference Between Why Men And Women Are Scared Of Commitment

    This Is The Difference Between Why Men And Women Are Scared Of Commitment

    I like to whine about being single, but the truth is, I have a fear of commitment. I love options, saying goodbye to youth is scary, and I want to do 602 more things before I have babies. This is not a female thought or a male thought — it is simply a human thought. […]
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    Here's Exactly What Happens To Your Body When You Send A Sext

    Here's Exactly What Happens To Your Body When You Send A Sext

    Do you remember your first sext? Maybe you were nervous. Or perhaps you were a super confident badass. Either way, you probably carefully considered what time of day to send it. Then, you crafted that perfectly suggestive string of words in your “Notes” app, while simultaneously carefully checking for typos. (Bad grammar is a boner killer.) […]
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    How To Get Over A Crush When It Feels Like You Literally Never Will

    How To Get Over A Crush When It Feels Like You Literally Never Will

    I have a confession: I have a major crush on someone, even though I recently found out he has a girlfriend. My crush doesn't live in the same city as me, and he's probably going to get engaged soon. We don't even text, but when I see a picture of his cute little face on […]
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    Here's Exactly How Guys Who Like You Will Flirt With You

    Here's Exactly How Guys Who Like You Will Flirt With You

    Flirting is an art form. As with works of art, flirtations can be visual (the rarely successful lustful wink), auditory (a well-crafted joke), and even performative (a casual strut by a certain desk at work, even though it's not on your way to the bathroom). There's modern flirting — a “you up?” text — and there's more classic flirting, like an […]
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    How To Stop Feeling So Ashamed Of Masturbating If You're A Woman

    How To Stop Feeling So Ashamed Of Masturbating If You're A Woman

    For men, masturbation is a straight up rite of passage. It feels like every blockbuster comedy has a joke about a suburban mother coming to terms with her pubescent son's “crusty sheets,” and every male comic has a bit about “yanking it” to porn. Lady comics definitely talk about touching themselves, too, but society as a whole really likes to pretend […]
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    How To Ask Someone Out On Bumble When You're Finally Ready To Meet IRL

    How To Ask Someone Out On Bumble When You're Finally Ready To Meet IRL

    Here's the thing about making the first move: When you've done it once, it's easy to do it a second time. As a lady on Bumble, you have to make the first move by messaging the cutie you connected with first, so you've already done the hardest part by the time you decide to figure out how to ask […]
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    4 Foolproof Ways To Get Yourself Turned On Quickly

    4 Foolproof Ways To Get Yourself Turned On Quickly

    Bodies are weird. Sometimes, a body gets hot and bothered by a billboard featuring Oscar Isaac on the commute home, and other times a body fails to get revved up even though it's finally copulating with its crush of a year. Yes, I am in fact talking about my body, as I have gotten turned on […]
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    How To Get Rid Of Morning Breath Before You Have Morning Sex

    How To Get Rid Of Morning Breath Before You Have Morning Sex

    If you are fortunate enough to be indulging in morning sex, do yourself a solid and don't sabotage it with a mouth that radiates stuck-in-your-gums-overnight-sashimi and eau-de-next-day-Chardonnay. (I definitely just gagged a little.) You had a great date followed by a great sleepover; with great power comes great responsibility, you dig? There's no place for morning breath in morning sex. […]
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    Women Reveal How They Knew They Actually Orgasmed For The First Time

    Women Reveal How They Knew They Actually Orgasmed For The First Time

    Ah, the elusive female orgasm. Nobody seems to understand it. There are books, studies, articles, and movies about it. Certain fictional movies would have women believe that they should be able to come at the push of a button (clitoris) oh-so conveniently, exactly as their male partner is reaching his pinnacle O face. Porn propels that same […]