• Kimmy Foskett on Let's Talk About Sex

    4 Ways To Get Yourself Ready For Sex

    4 Ways To Get Yourself Ready For Sex

    “Sex is like a yoga class” is one of the the most basic b*tch quotes in all of the land, but it's true. It can be super hot. It has lots of positions. It can be hard to relax while you're doing it. It's easy to forget to breathe. You might see a reflection of yourself […]
  • Kimmy Foskett in Dating

    When Is The Best Time Of The Day To Use Tinder?

    When Is The Best Time Of The Day To Use Tinder?

    Timing is everything when it comes to relationships. Timing is also everything when it comes to Tinder. Think about it: What if you were busy swiping in New York, while your very own Prince William was perusing the app in London? Kiss that royal wedding goodbye. And if you had swiped at 4 p.m. instead of […]
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    6 Brutal Song Lyrics To Text That One Ex Who Just Won't Go Away

    6 Brutal Song Lyrics To Text That One Ex Who Just Won't Go Away

    Late night “I love you” texts, a missed FaceTime… followed by three more FaceTimes, and multiple paragraph emails filled with more apologies than an Anthony Weiner press conference. Those are all examples of possible messages you can receive from your ex. We've all been there. For the first few months, it's acceptable. After that, it gets stale. […]
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    Should You Give Your Ghoster a Second Chance?

    Should You Give Your Ghoster a Second Chance?

    Ghosting: The bad dating behavior so much a part of the lexicon that even my dad knows what it is. I've only been truly ghosted once (which I chronicled in great detail for the internet). It was a bit of an imposter-ghosting situation, because he eventually did reach out and explain himself. I mean, I was owed […]
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    Why Do Guys Not Talk To You After Matching With You On Tinder?

    Why Do Guys Not Talk To You After Matching With You On Tinder?

    Getting a match on a dating app is a pretty simple process. First, there's an arbitary-ish swipe left or right signaling “I could get down with that” or “Nah, I'm good.” Ideally, the next step involves some auto-gratification; it's a match! Finally, some messaging back and forth, a little bit of flirting, and maybe even a real life […]
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    The 3 Things Jenny Slate Is Doing Right With Her Dating Life That Everyone Should Follow

    The 3 Things Jenny Slate Is Doing Right With Her Dating Life That Everyone Should Follow

    Jenny Slate is the epitome of the word “endearing.” She also just so happens to be my girl crush of all girl crushes. My obsession could be because she's from near where I grew up in Massachusetts and I feel that faux-kinship thing. It could also be because she's a charming actor, hilarious comic, and the originator of […]
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    Relationship Experts Reveal The Best Pick Up Lines For Women To Use On Guys IRL

    Relationship Experts Reveal The Best Pick Up Lines For Women To Use On Guys IRL

    The number of times that I have picked up men at bars solely due to the charm and wit I injected into a single sentence that I also expertly delivered is exactly zero. I've never used a pickup line in my life, and I'm usually resistant to fielding them. Really? A line? Pick up lines and dad jokes feel […]
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    Doing These 4 Things On A First Date Will Get You A Second, According To Guys

    Doing These 4 Things On A First Date Will Get You A Second, According To Guys

    I have relationship woes, you have relationship woes, Drake has relationship woes. Dating is hard. Love is pain. That's why they write stories about it. Good news: Most men are pretty forgiving on a first date. The patriarchy, books like The Game, and pretty much every rom com from the 2000s would have you believe that when you like a […]
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  • Kimmy Foskett on Let's Talk About Sex

    This Is How Long Sex With Your Partner Should Actually Last

    This Is How Long Sex With Your Partner Should Actually Last

    I've never been good at measuring time. I think I can make it to my yoga studio in five minutes and end up sprinting every. Single. Time. This is also why I remain convinced that it's still January. Excuse me, but where did all those months go? If you held a gun to my head and asked […]
  • Kimmy Foskett on Let's Talk About Sex

    4 Things To Ask Yourself Before You Have Sex With The New Guy You're Seeing

    4 Things To Ask Yourself Before You Have Sex With The New Guy You're Seeing

    The topic of when to have sex with that new guy of yours can be a big deal. Some people say wait until the third date. Others say wait until you're exclusive. Religion might say wait until marriage. ~Insert multiple eye rolls here~ Sure, it's best to have sex when you want to, but the problem is, sometimes it […]
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    The 3 Steps To Loving Yourself If You've Been Single Forever

    The 3 Steps To Loving Yourself If You've Been Single Forever

    If another person asks me if I have a boyfriend, I may poke my eyeballs out. As someone who has been single for what feels like an eternity, I already know what comes next. I'm told I'm too picky and I should be more vulnerable. We've all heard it. My therapist sermonizes it. Confidence begets confidence. Vulnerability is the key […]