• Unwritten in Life

    I’m A 6-Foot Tall Woman, And Here’s How I Learned To Embrace My Height

    I’m A 6-Foot Tall Woman, And Here’s How I Learned To Embrace My Height

    I used to hate the way society judges, the way it describes people, and the way it expects everyone to be. You see, I’m not your “typical” girl, I mean yeah… I like shoes, purses, clothes, and boys, but I’m 6 feet tall. And girls can’t be that tall, it’s not “normal,” or at least that’s […]
  • Unwritten in Dating

    Stop Making Excuses For A Guy Who’s Clearly Just Not Interested In You

    Stop Making Excuses For A Guy Who’s Clearly Just Not Interested In You

    Throughout my life thus far, I have been involved in several relationships and many “almost relationships,” as most of the millennial generation knows them as. The “almost relationship” is exactly what it sounds like: a relationship that is almost real, but never quite makes it that far. What I really struggled with in these almost relationships was […]
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    8 Fabulous Steps To Take To Ensure Your Ladies’ Night Is A Huge Success

    8 Fabulous Steps To Take To Ensure Your Ladies’ Night Is A Huge Success

    As we get older, it’s only natural that we grow apart from our friend groups due to time constraints and other obligations in life. Sadly, the rare ladies’ nights become few and far between. So, in that once in a lifetime shot that you have at getting all the girls together again for a night […]
  • Unwritten in Dating

    Everything I Need To Say To The Boyfriend I’m About To Break Up With

    Everything I Need To Say To The Boyfriend I’m About To Break Up With

    This has been a recalcitrant, tumultuous relationship, and I am a recalcitrant, tumultuous girl. The way our personalities clash is almost as powerful as the way our lips crash when we kiss. When we fight, it feels like my head is going to explode and my heart is going to shatter and the world is […]
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    5 Reasons Why Getting Advice On Your Relationship Is Actually Destroying It

    5 Reasons Why Getting Advice On Your Relationship Is Actually Destroying It

    In the era of social media, it’s very easy to get caught up in all the hype of wanting to share what’s going on in your life. It’s also very easy to look for solutions to all your problems on the internet. I see numerous articles giving girls advice about their relationships and how to […]
  • Unwritten on Just The Way You Are

    Please Stop Calling Me ‘Exotic Looking,’ It’s Not A Compliment

    Please Stop Calling Me ‘Exotic Looking,’ It’s Not A Compliment

    Please don’t call me exotic. It may seem like a compliment for you, but to me, it’s anything but that. Surrounded by girls who are blonde, blue-eyed, tall, and fair-skinned, I realize I stand out. Instead of blue eyes, my eyes are the color of espresso. My skin is tan and darkens as the sun […]
  • Unwritten in Dating

    If Your Relationship Is Healthy, It Should Have These 8 Qualities

    If Your Relationship Is Healthy, It Should Have These 8 Qualities

    One of the toughest parts about dating is finding someone who has compatible goals when it comes to a relationship. Finding someone who wants the same things as you do can be a daunting task. The beginning of every relationship is really just a trial period when you think about it. You’re testing out the […]
  • Unwritten in Wellness

    What You Should Remember When Nothing In Life Is Going Your Way

    What You Should Remember When Nothing In Life Is Going Your Way

    A few weeks ago, I wrote a piece about the reminder you need when life seems a little rough: You’re doing better than you think you are. As it turns out, sometimes, that reminder just isn’t enough because, quite honestly, life can get really awful sometimes. My sh*tshow started a few days before Christmas this past […]
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    6 Things You Definitely Took For Granted When You Were A Kid

    6 Things You Definitely Took For Granted When You Were A Kid

    No one really appreciates being a kid until they grow up. Childhood, and the freedom that comes with it, gets taken for granted by the majority of kids out there, and, unfortunately, I was definitely no exception. I hated being treated like a child (even when I was one) and dreamed of finally becoming an adult, […]
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    This Is The Most Important Thing You’ll Learn If You Go To College

    This Is The Most Important Thing You’ll Learn If You Go To College

    Like any other senior on the brink of graduation, the past couple of months have been filled with reflection and appreciation. As I prepare to take the last final exam of my college career, it’s impossible not to experience that whirlwind of emotions one can only describe as “bittersweet.” I’ve been lucky enough to receive a post-secondary […]
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    4 Things You Do Every Day That Actually Kill Your Chances Of Being Happy

    4 Things You Do Every Day That Actually Kill Your Chances Of Being Happy

    There’s one thing every human being wants in life and that’s to be happy. And, despite that universal longing, sometimes, no matter how hard we try, genuine happiness is difficult to come by. Some days, I take a moment to reflect on my life and sometimes I find that I feel a little bit lost or unhappy. What […]
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    If Your Relationship Doesn’t Have These 5 Things, It Probably Won’t Last

    If Your Relationship Doesn’t Have These 5 Things, It Probably Won’t Last

    It’s becoming harder and harder to find a real relationship that is based on more than just sex these days. Yes, of course, I acknowledge that sex is an important factor in a relationship. If you’re not sexually attracted to someone then you’re probably not meant to be in a relationship. But there are other factors […]