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26 Differences Between 'Single You' And 'Girlfriend You'

by Gigi Engle
Stocksy

Ladies, can you honestly say nothing about you changes when you get a boyfriend? No? I didn’t think so.

It’s OK! We all change when we get comfortable in a relationship. It’s just the way of the world. There’s nothing wrong with changing your lifestyle choices and routine once you get cozy with your bae.

You’re not giving up your independence just because you’re not completely independent anymore.

It’s wonderful to fall in love. Enjoy it.

I mean there are definitely those girls: The ones who become totally obsessed with their boyfriends and fall off the face of the earth, never to be heard from again.

Just because you have an SO doesn’t mean you have to go MIA from your friend group. That, my friend, is not a healthy way to have a relationship.

It’s fabulous when you find someone you love, but don’t let the fact that you’re off the market take over your identity. Please. Seriously.

With that being said, love does change you, and the differences between single you and girlfriend you are pretty extreme.

When you once got turnt up to hit the club in a bandage dress, you’re now more excited to snuggle up with your boo and a documentary on Netflix.

When you once were terrified of commitment, you’re now comfortably sailing along the seas of monogamy. Where you once took a bottle of wine to the face by yourself… oh wait.

You definitely still take a bottle of wine to the face, regardless of your relationship status. Anyways...

Things just shift around when you let another person become a part of your world. You’re not running around looking for the next bar or the next hookup; you’ve already found what you’re looking for.

These are 26 differences between single you and girlfriend you:

Single you gets drunk with her girlfriends on the reg...

Girlfriend you hasn’t seen her girlfriends in months.

Single you is pissed all of her friends are getting engaged...

Girlfriend you is wondering if you’ll get a ring any time soon.

Single you hates couples and all their gross PDA...

Girlfriend you can’t stop touching bae on the train.

Single you kisses strangers in dive bars...

Girlfriend you is always the little spoon.

Single you uses her oven for storage...

Girlfriend you knows how to turn the oven on.

Single you never misses a party (or a shot)...

Girlfriend you wants to party with Netflix, her boo and a tub of Ben and Jerry’s.

Single you flirts with guys to get free drinks at the bar...

Girlfriend you knows there’s a guy at home waiting with a bottle of whiskey.

Single you orders delivery for every meal with no shame...

Girlfriend you cooks enough food for lunch all week with bae.

Single you thinks porn is weird and degrading to women...

Girlfriend you watches porn with her boyfriend and is super into it.

Single you stays out until 5 am...

Girlfriend you doesn't go out at all.

Single you wears short dresses and heels to the club...

Girlfriend you is still in his shirt from last night.

Single you has dinners with her girlfriends twice a week...

Girlfriend you makes him dinner twice a week.

Single you spends money on alcohol and new crop tops...

Girlfriend you buys him sweaters at J. Crew.

Single you spends nights watching bad TV in her apartment...

Girlfriend you hasn't seen her apartment in 12 days.

Single you coordinates vacations with her five best friends...

Girlfriend you lets bae figure out the details of your trip because f*ck that.

Single you dresses for others...

Girlfriend you dresses up for herself.

Single you doesn't want to hang out with her friend and her boyfriend...

Girlfriend you wants to hang out with your friend and your boyfriend.

Single you is perfectly groomed...

Girlfriend you hasn't shaved in a month.

Single you spends her free time at the gym...

Girlfriend you is happy to spend her free time snuggling.

Single you loves her independence...

Girlfriend you appreciates her independence.

Single you has leftovers for lunch...

Girlfriend you really misses having leftovers at all.

Single you hates labels...

Girlfriend you is a proud wifey.

Single you talks on the phone with her mom for hours...

Girlfriend you talks on the phone with bae’s mom for hours.

Single you gets excited for a night on the town...

Girlfriend you gets excited for a night on the couch.

Single you finishes a bottle of wine by herself...

Girlfriend you still finishes a bottle of wine by herself.

Single you never wants to settle down...

Girlfriend you secretly wonders if she’s settling.

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