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Get Yours, Girl: 8 Sexual Positions That Guarantee Orgasm For Women

Ladies, this is a big weekend for us. And no, sorry, I’m not talking about Valentine’s Day. I’m not here to talk romance.

I’m talking about — finally! — the opening of “50 Shades of Grey.”

Yes, it’s time to grab your girlfriends, buy your movie tickets and your mini bottles of wine, and, most importantly, figure out what bar you’re going to after that’ll guarantee an encounter with a hot guy onto whom you’ll unleash all the sexual tension inevitably stirring in your loins.

Now, which positions will guarantee the optimum release of sexual tension? Surely, any vagina can act as a flesh light for any penis, but when it comes down to it, your libido will be spiked so high, any sex resulting in less than a body-numbing orgasm will just not cut it.

So, let’s talk about the sex positions that will benefit you.

When it comes to sex, I’m going to let you in on a secret: You will not orgasm from penetration alone. The idea this happens, ever, is a total myth.

Dozens upon dozens upon dozens of experts — in addition to dozens upon dozens of real, actual women — have proclaimed clitoral stimulation is required to orgasm. Not suggested. Not encouraged. Required.

The sex positions giving you even a chance of achieving an orgasm are ones that stimulate your clitoris. Or, even better, ones which give you easy access to do it yourself.

So, here they are: The top eight best sex positions to guarantee orgasm for women. I’d like to warn you, doggy style is not included.

1. Pillow Talk

Who knew you could completely revolutionize missionary if you just put a pillow under your ass?

I know, you’re thinking about how much you hate missionary. The only pleasure missionary has ever given you is in the form of daydreaming, when you gaze over your man’s shoulders, look up at the ceiling, and fantasize about what you’re going to buy when you shop online later.

But trust me, this one’s good. Get into missionary and grab the fluffiest pillow you’ve got. Put it under your ass. This should lift the entire lower half of your body off the bed to allow for deeper penetration in missionary. Wrap your legs around him for extra depth.

Since it’s very difficult to orgasm from penetration alone, this position gives you easy access to your clit, so start rubbing it. Now. Don’t be embarrassed.


2. The Folding Chair

This is another twist on missionary. For this move, assume missionary position, but stiffen your legs as straight as they can go and place them on his shoulders as he thrusts in and out of you. You should feel like your whole body is bending in half, like a folding chair.

If you’re feeling extra flexible, lift your legs from his shoulders (keeping them extended) and move them toward your body as far back as you can go. You’re closing up the folding chair even more now.

It’ll be a bit harder to rub your clitoris in this position, but his pubic bone will be leaning down on you with a lot of pressure, which will definitely add that much-needed friction.

Prepare yourself: This is probably the deepest he’ll ever be inside you. You’ll wonder if his d*ck actually doubled in size overnight.

(It didn’t.)


3. Sexual Spooning

What do we ladies love more than emotions??? Nothing!!! Just kidding. We love orgasms. And in this position, you’ll get both.

Assume a regular cuddly spooning position — you as little spoon, he as big spoon — and allow him to enter you from behind.

He won’t have a lot of room in this position to actually thrust in and out, but if you have him just stay inside you and push himself against the front wall of your vagina, there will be constant pressure directly on your G-spot.

This position will be more relaxing for him, so his hands will be more energized and free to touch your nipples and clitoris, which we know is crucial for orgasm. You’ll also have all this open space in front of you to touch yourself if you’d like.

And then, when you both finish, you can just resume spooning. No additional movement necessary. Except maybe to clean up.


4. Cowgirl

There’s nothing like good girl-on-top to make you feel like you’re in control of your own pleasure. You can control the speed of the thrusting, the depth of his entry, and which walls inside of you he hits.

So get on top, lower yourself onto him, and start moving up and down. It’s natural to lean forward when you’re in this position, but try sitting up straight so your body is perpendicular to his and lean back.

This will allow for even deeper penetration, give you easy access to rubbing your clitoris and elongate your torso to make you look nice and lean.

Definite win.


5. Reverse Cowgirl

Cowgirl is great, but you have even more control in the reverse form of this classic sex position.

Get on top like you normally would in cowgirl, but turn around so your ass is facing him. When you’re reversed, the angle from which he enters you allows for easier, more consistent access to your G-spot.

To go even deeper, sit up straight and have him extend his legs straight out in front of him. Then, place your knees on the bed on both sides of his hips and use your knees to springboard you up and down at any speed you desire.

Don’t forget to lean back to hit the front G-spot wall and use your fingers to rub yourself.

I realize his feet may not be the sexiest form of visual stimulation, but hey, whatever works for an orgasm, right?


6. The Double Worm

Lie on your stomach and have him lie on his stomach on top of your back. It should look like you’re both about the do the worm.

He could either prop himself up on his hands so he’s in a slight push-up position or just keep his stomach resting on your back. Now, lift your butt up so he can enter you from behind and whisper all those sweet, sweet nothings into your ear.

The pressure of him lying on top of your back will increase the friction in between thrusts. Also, your clitoris will be rubbing up against the bed, allowing for even more friction.

If you’re feeling freaky, have him do the actual worm while he thrusts.


7. The Stand Up

If having both of you on the bed is getting tedious, have him stand up on the floor in front of the bed while you scoot down to the very edge of the bed and spread your legs. He’ll enter you while he’s standing, and the perpendicular angle will make your clitoris extra visible, so it’ll be easier for him — or you — to touch it.

Lift your ass slightly and place one leg on his shoulder for even deeper penetration.

Standing will require less energy for him and more direct access into your vagina, so he’ll be able to penetrate you as fast or as slow as you want — without getting as tired.


8. The Straddle

This position is great because it doesn’t require a lot of effort at all. It’s also emotional, and we all know how much girls like emotions.

Have him sit up normally while you straddle him so you’re face to face. Now, instead of bouncing up and down, simply swirl yourself around and rock back and forth so his penis hits the wall of your G-spot over and over again.

Once again, lean back for easier access to the clitoris. Touch yourself again. You can do it.

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Alexia LaFata

Digital Editor

Alexia LaFata is a Deputy Editor. She's a proud New Jersey native and Boston College graduate. When she's not writing, she's watching documentaries, practicing her Cher impression, or eating pasta. Stalk her at alexialafata.com.
Alexia LaFata is a Deputy Editor. She's a proud New Jersey native and Boston College graduate. When she's not writing, she's watching documentaries, practicing her Cher impression, or eating pasta. Stalk her at alexialafata.com.

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