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Send a horny meme to your partner when you're in the mood.

21 Sexy, LOL-Worthy Memes To Text Your Partner When You’re Horny

These are not subtle.

by Rachel Shatto
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It’s easy to misinterpret a text message. Anyone who’s ever fought with a partner via text because their tone didn’t come across accurately knows this is true. But most of the time, you can’t go wrong with a meme. As the unofficial language of the internet, memes are a great way to make someone laugh while casually conveying a specific emotion or state of mind. And, hey, sometimes, that specific state of mind is horny. If you’re looking for a horny meme or two to send your partner when you’re in the mood, look no further — I’ve rounded up 21 that’ll do the trick.

Maybe you’re still feeling things out with a potential hookup and you’re worried that actual sexting might scare them into ghosting you — yikes. Maybe you can’t find the right words, or maybe humor is your partner’s love language. In any and all of these situations, funny, cute, and horny memes can help you get the message across, or even help jump-start a sexier conversation.

Some of these err on the milder, more suggestive side, while others are definitely NSFW. And because memes can be so relatable and hyper-specific at once, they won’t all work for every situation — some of these are really only memes to text your partner, and others work better for someone you don’t know too well. But the internet has taught us time and time again that there’s content out there for everyone, and you’re sure to find something on this list that will let your love (or lust) interest know you’re down.

1. For When Your Needs Are Simple

Is it really too much to ask? If you’d like (no, need) a little special attention, try sending this meme to your SO.

2. For When You Want To Let Them Know What You’re All About

Are things moving very, very slowly? Skip all the texting and get right to the good part. Your texting recipient will totally get the hint.

3. For When A Trade-Off Sounds Like A Good Deal

This is possibly the cutest proposition of all time. Who could say no? This horny meme is an adorable way to suggest getting the ball rolling.

4. For When They’re Really, Really Busy...

...but you’re in the mood. Hey, distractions happen. And when your partner is looking super hot while going about their day, it’s easy to want to give them a hand (ahem).

5. For When You’re Feeling Clingy

This one isn’t inherently horny, but it will definitely send the message that you’d like some quality time, stat. And it’s just a really cute and funny way to show someone you’re into them.

6. For When You Just Got Back From A Great First Date

At this point, why hide anything? If you’re both on the same page, lean into it. They’ll appreciate the directness.

7. For When Looks Can Be Deceiving

This meme can serve several purposes: It’s a cute, relatable joke to send to a partner, but if you’re chatting with a new (or prospective) hookup, this will let them know right away to expect a lot of fun once things get physical.

8. For When You Have A Movie Date Planned

If you’re planning on heading to the theater soon, this cute meme will let your partner know there’s something on your mind other than the movie. That hand on the thigh move never gets old.

9. For When You Want To Get Straight To The Point

OK, this isn’t exactly low-key. But sometimes, you just need to tell someone where you’re at. Then maybe they can help you with your… problems.

10. For When You’re Into BDSM And Really, Really Love Your Partner

It’s all about balance. This sweet text will be the highlight of your sub’s day — well, it will be the highlight of their day until you get there, if you know what I mean.

11. For When You’re Trying To Feel Them Out

If weird, amorphous, abstract memes are more your (or your hookup’s) style, this one should get the message across. It’s direct but just strange enough to pique someone’s interest.

12. For When You Want To Get A Little Snarky

Depending on the recipient, this meme could be funny and flirty, or maybe just a great way to knock a podcast guy down a peg. Here’s to versatile horny memes.

13. For When You Know What You Want

Two birds. One stone. This one gets right to the point, but not without some cheeky humor.

14. For When You’re Simply Horny

This is about as straight-forward as a horny meme can come. Plus, you can let them know this isn’t the only cake they’re getting today.

15. For When You’re Feeling Kinky

Hello? Your eyes aren’t going to get the job done, and your hands are not nearly as fun as your mouth.

16. For When You Want To Be Choked

A little BDSM, but make it cute and flirty. And hey, if you have trouble telling your partner exactly what you like in bed, try sending this meme to get the conversation started.

17. For When You Want To Make Them Feel Special

Out of all the legs. This one is sure to get a laugh and an “aww” out of them — and might even score you an invitation over to their place.

18. For When You’re Also Making A PSA

Make them laugh and tell them you’re horny all in one meme. Plus, you can let them know that by accepting the offer, they’ll still get a natural dopamine boost.

19. For When You’re Feeling Bossy

You can totally order them around and keep it cute at the same time. Just send them this meme when you know exactly what you want from them.

20. For When You’re Cuddly But Also DTF

Who says you can’t have both? Send them this meme to let your partner know you’re down to snuggle, but that’s definitely not all (as long as all the “inappropriate” touching is consensual, of course).

21. For When You’re Letting Them Know There’s No One Else

Show them you’re simping for them and only them while dropping a hint at the same time. They will be flattered, but also probably super down to make it happen.

These texts might range from G- to X-rated, but if your partner shares your sense of humor, you’re just one copy, paste, and send away from a great time.

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