Do you ever look in the mirror and say to yourself, "I’m an undesirable troll who has no real, redeeming qualities. How could a woman ever lust for this?"
If you have, you’re a silly fool. Plus, your modesty and self-deprecating smoothness make you a total catch.
Take all that a little further and you can be absolutely irresistible to the ladies.
Things like appearance, a great career and a charming personality, are great, but they are nothing when compared to the right attitude.
This is good news because, lucky for you, such a thing can be completely overhauled (if you want it to be).
Although a mindset shift as such will unlikely happen overnight, the effort required is definitely worth it.
You’ll agree with this when you notice people looking at you a little differently, perhaps with a little lust in their eyes.
If this sounds appealing to you, attempt the following:
Be more confident
I can’t emphasize this enough: Confidence is the sexiest thing a man has.
It doesn't matter who you are, if you can embrace it, flaunt it and use it, you will have much more success than the male model who's eye-f*cking everyone without the moxie to act on it.
Just go up and talk to women. It’s okay if you’re awkward, and it’s also okay if they tell you to “f*ck off” because this leads me to my next point...
Be a little shameless
Live out the phrase, “Zero f*cks given,” when it comes to the dating world and you’ll definitely be doing it right.
Take rejections as learning experiences and move on to the next.
Be yourself and don’t ever think you aren’t “worthy” of a woman’s love.
It doesn’t matter if you have pancake nipples and/or your belly protrudes over your package; there is no shame in this.
Your body is a vessel that carries that sexy soul of yours so you better take off your shirt in the pool and love who you are.
If they point and laugh, put on a smile and do a little dance for them because “zero f*cks were given,” remember?
Embrace your flaws
What you have to offer may not be what society or the media deems to be sexy, but what the f*ck do they know?
You are sexy, especially if you know you’re sexy.
Instead of looking at your shortcomings with disdain, learn to love them. You can’t expect women to appreciate your flaws if you can’t.
Love your flaws because they make you human, give you character and make you, you.
Another great thing to do with your flaws — besides loving them — is to make self-deprecating jokes about them.
Use them as an opportunity to bring laughter to the world instead of pity because being funny is always sexier than being someone to feel sorry for.
Be unapologetic
Awkward as f*ck? Terrible kisser? You came in three minutes? Don’t ever apologize! Your best move is to either make a joke about it or leave it in the past.
It’s good to apologize for legitimate wrongdoings, but when you begin to apologize for things that are out of your control, like who you are or what you are capable of, it becomes an unattractive weakness.
Again, it comes back to confidence. Be confident in yourself and your abilities because there is truly nothing sexier.
At the end of the day, even the woman who seems as though she is up there floating in a league of her own is just an intelligent ape.
She's a creature on a tiny rock spinning through space, who has become self-aware just like you.
Although she may never give you the time of day, isn't it a nice thought to think you might just have a chance?
Go and talk to her because after all, maybe you do.
