The most important goals in life are personal tranquility and peace of mind, yet these objectives are very hard to attain so if you are trying to live by someone else's rules. This is why you must be yourself and do exactly what you love in order to have a fulfilling and liberating life.
The fact that people continue to conform each and every day just makes it more special to see someone stand out and ignore the standards of the masses. A true sense of ingenuity comes through that shows that this person is a leader and is dedicated to an elite lifestyle.
While many find it less stressful to mold themselves in accordance to what seems most acceptable and follow in other people's footsteps, true visionaries stray from the beaten path and embrace their individuality.
In order to be yourself, you must grow a backbone and have thick skin. No one knows what makes you truly need to be happy other than yourself.
This is an important concept to realize because you will never please yourself if you are constantly trying to please other people instead. You need to stand up for what you believe in and show the world the beauty of what makes you unique.
Let's say you love to be on the beach or near an ocean. If you move miles away from your desired location much like thousands of others for monetary gains, how on earth will you be happy?
The most influential entrepreneurs take what gives them pride and fulfillment and rely solely on these passions to bring them joy and success. They understand that just because everyone else is acting a certain way doesn’t mean you have to as well.
Big or small, enjoy all that you have that makes you, you. Doing so will give you the attention and admiration that so many conformists crave. Having the courage to show other people how different you are is what really garners respect, not just doing what everyone else is doing because you are afraid they won't accept who you are.
There will always be those who will try to look down on you, yet what they are really upset about is their failure to make you conform to their demands. Besides, these people are most likely already miserable because they lack the strength to showcase their individual differences like you can.
When you are being yourself, it is easier to see what you want out of life and what is truly important to you. Think about how when you fall in love, whether it is in your work, your hobbies or that special person, the whole universe seems to be in tune to your feelings.
You know exactly who you are as a person and those around you can see it as well. This helps eliminate the people in your life that do not complement the person you want to be come and attract those who do.
It doesn't matter if some people think you're crazy when you first begin putting your soul on display. As long as you are happy because you are doing what you love, everything else will soon fall into place.
Rob Hausler | Elite.
