When you're crushing hard on someone, there's nothing quite like a little game of "truth or dare" to help you to get to know them a little better. It helps both by giving you an excuse to ask all the questions you've secretly been wanting to pose, but also by revealing just how willing they are to take a risk for the sake of a dare. And even though a flirty game of “truth or dare” can be extra hot when you’re face-to-face, “truth or dare” questions to text your crush can come in handy when you can’t be together IRL.

If you’ve ever been in the middle of flirty text banter, only to get stuck halfway through because you don’t know what to say next, then you know it can get super awkward. Nothing dampens the mood of a juicy conversation like a long lull, so next time you’re grasping for inspiration on what truths or dares to text your crush, refer to this convenient list. Virtual dares might take a little more creativity, but FaceTime and social media make it totally doable and hilarious. Besides, nothing screams “I’m into you” like being tagged in someone’s Instagram thirst trap. (Ok, maybe some things do.)

Here are 20 “truth or dare” questions to text your crush during your next virtual soirée.

Questions For When They Pick Truth

1. What’s the most romantic thing you’ve ever done, or that someone has done for you?
2. What’s something you find a turn-on that you think most other people don’t?
3. What did you think about me when we first met?
4. Have you ever sent anyone a photo without any clothes on? If so, how did that go?
5. Do you ever creep on my social media?
6. If you were here right now, what would you want to do?
7. What makes you feel jealous?
8. What makes you feel happiest?
9. If I kissed you, would you kiss me back?
10. Who’s your current crush?

Dares For When They’re Feeling Adventurous

1. Send me a pic of your favorite (non X-rated) body part.
2. Take your best thirst trap photo, post it on social media, and tag me.
3. Send a screenshot of your search history for the last two days.
4. Show me your best lap dance moves on FaceTime.
5. Show me how you like to be kissed on your hand over FaceTime.
6. Jump in the shower with your clothes on over FaceTime.
7. Write my name on your body and then send me a pic.
8. Put on all of your underthings over your clothes and send me a photo.
9. Tell me something you don’t want me to know.
10. Tell me something you really want me to know.

Disclaimer alert: These “truth or dare” texts can turn any flirty convo extra spicy. But if your crush dares to play along, there’s a good chance the truth is they’re crushing right back.