53 Flirty Texts That’ll Make Your Convo Go From PG To XXX, Fast

The first time I sexted with someone, it was with my long-distance ex. He lived out of state, so we would text each other all day long — and eventually all night, too. It started innocently enough — with casually flirty texts — but before long, things got real hot, real quick. Good sexting material just came easily.

If you’re shy when it comes to dirty talk, you might not think you’re much of a sexter. However, if you're talking with someone who you want to explore sexting with, then easing into the conversation can be a good way to start. Not only can this help you feel more comfortable, but it can also let you gauge your partner’s comfort level and make sure they're open to sexting— because, as always, consent is key, and you might not want to dive right in if you’re not sure they’re up for it. Once you know you're on the same page and the conversation is flowing, you might discover it's not only pretty easy and fun, but it’s also a huge confidence booster. Knowing you can turn someone on with nothing but a text? Go you.

So, what do you do if you're texting someone you're into and you start getting turned on? Here are 36 examples of good sexting material to help steer that PG convo into XXX territory, fast.

Mildly-Hot Sexts

1. Too bad you’re not here right now.
2. FYI: I just got out of the shower.
3. I just thought you should know I love your body.
4. I had an amazing dream about you last night.
5. I would invite you to come over, but I don’t know if I could control myself.
6. BTW… I’m naked right now.
7. Nothing turns me on more than thinking about you.
8. Do you know how sexy you are?
9. If we were in the same room right now, what would you want me to do?
10. I’m imagining what would happen if you were here right now.
11. I think about your lips a lot. The way they look and the way they feel.
12. What would you say if I asked you for a naughty pic?

Medium-Hot Sexts

1. Bored. Wish you were here in bed with me.
2. Where would you ask me to touch you, if I were there with you?
3. I want to get naked with you right now.
4. Can't sleep. I just keep imagining all the things we could be doing to each other if you were here.
5. Have you ever had a sex dream about me?
6. I can’t control myself when you're around.
7. What's your favorite sex position?
8. If you could do anything you want with me, what would you do?
9. I can't wait to find out if you're as good IRL as when I fantasize about you.
10. I'm so cold RN. Should I put on some clothes?
11. Not to be corny, because I genuinely want to know. What’s your ultimate fantasy?
12. If you could kiss any part of my body, what would it be? And why? ... Also, how (and be descriptive)?
13. Just over here picturing you naked... and I like what I see.
14. Hopping in the shower. Want to come with?

Spicy-Hot Sexts

1. What are you doing? I'm sitting here imagining you, me, and another... "friend."
2. I just can’t stop thinking about your [body part] in my mouth.
3. I wish you were inside me RN.
4. I had a dream where you made me your submissive, and it was hot AF.
5. I'm texting you with one hand... wish you were here.
6. Thinking about you is making me so wet.
7. What do you think about when you touch yourself?
8. You taste so good in my mouth.
9. I'm so turned on... wanna help me cum?
10. I love to imagine you touching yourself.

NSFW Sexts

1. What’s your favorite part of my body?
2. My love language is physical touch. Want to see why?
3. I want to sit on your face.
4. Just thinking about you makes me horny.
5. Whatever you did last night has me walking side to side this morning.
6. If you were here right now, what would we be doing?
7. Quick poll: do I look better in lingerie, or nothing at all?

X-Rated Sexts

1. I’ve been hoping you’ll show up at my door with a bouquet of flowers — one for every time I’ve made you cum this week.
2. Tell me about your spiciest sex dream and I’ll tell you mine.
3. Texting is so overrated. Let’s get to know each other in the bedroom.
4. You might want to bring a change of clothes, because I’m going to rip them off of you when you get here.
5. It’s about time I introduce you to my kitty.
6. Which is better: role play or foreplay?
7. Should we grab dinner tonight or skip straight to dessert?
8. You, me, lingerie, blindfolds... tonight.
9. Let’s switch things up. Tonight, I’m on top.
10. I’m so naughty, I need to be punished.

Remember: Sexting should be fun! And you never have to do anything you don’t want to do, period. Next time your flirty texts turn hotter than you expected, have fun with it — and don't be surprised if you start sweating.